Finding the perfect lipstick is almost like finding your “lobster,” (Friends lovers, IYKYK). If you wear lipstick often, you may notice that over time your go-to lipstick shades may no longer sit on your lips as flawlessly as they once did. While there are some makeup trends that stay on top throughout the years (like a classic red lip, smokey eyeshadow, and winged-out eyeliner), there's a reason why some of the makeup products that were your go-tos in your 20s may not look exactly the same on your skin in your 40s and beyond (and that's totally fine). Over time, our lips, just like the rest of our skin, lose collagen and become prone to dryness and feathering, which is all completely natural. “When it comes to wearing lipstick in our 40s, we don't need to overthink what we can't wear or shouldn't wear, but more so HOW we wear it,” says Sasha Ghodstinat, CODE8's Global Makeup Artist and Brand Trainer.

As we age (like fine, expensive wine—if we might add), the types of makeup and skincare products we use need to evolve with us. And that doesn't mean that you need to ditch your favorite matte lipsticks or steer clear of lip gloss and shimmer. “Almost anything goes. You can still play with color!,” says Nick Lujan, makeup artist and Director of Education & Artistry at KEVYN AUCOIN BEAUTY. Bottom line: Don't give in to the myths. Here are some of the best lipstick tips for aging lips, followed by 4 lipsticks you're sure to love.

What Makes a Good Lipstick for Older Women?

Look for Hydrating Formulas

Use a Lip Mask A.M. and P.M

Exfoliate Your Lips

Prep with Primer

Center Your Gloss

Make Mattes Work For You

Here's a List of the Best Lipsticks for older women:

Best Contouring Lipstick: CLINIQUE Dramatically Different™ Lipstick Shaping Lip Colour

Best Hydrating Lipstick: L'ORÉAL PARIS Age Perfect Luminous Hydrating Lipstick + Nourishing Serum

Best Matte Lipstick: KEVYN AUCOIN BEAUTY Unforgettable Matte Lipstick

Best Plumping Lip Gloss: CODE 8 Glazé Universal Plumping Lip Gloss in Spyglass